Feel their presence..

This story is of a nuclear family who had recently purchased a new home and were doing up the interiors. They had received a bunch of plant's as a house warming gift. But they didn't know who gifted it to them as there was nothing written. They even didn't know what these plant's were for. They tried hard to search about this plant but to no success. Not knowing what to do with the plant's, they decided to just keep it with them.

Month's later life became busier than expected and the family had no time to take care of the plant's. Heating up in the sun without water, the plant's finally decided to dry up. The family then realised, lately, that all the plants had crippled and had dried up.
 

Later after many month's an article had appeared about this plant. It was written that this plant was rare and had high medicinal value. It also said that this plant was not known to many. On reading this, the family realised thier loss.

On the same lines, in life, we don't realize the importance of some people when they are there near us. Maybe they would just be lying in our phone book or present in our facebook-friend list.They may be just there in our life but we might have never realized their importance.  But only when they leave us and depart somewhere else we realize their significance. We understand the value of their presence. But alas, it would have been too late then.

In the story above, they had lost all the plant's they had. Unfortunately they were rare and would not be readily available to plant it again. Even if they had planted fresh one's again, it wouldn't be the same they had lost. But when you lose a person ( may be forever...or due to some differences or no contact's  ) you cannot bring him back or plant him back again. In life you'll befriend new people. But you'll not get the same person again. What is lost, is lost forever. In case the separation was due to disagreement's and fortunately it's solved then and only then they could reunite.

Thus, I would request all the reader's to realize the importance of each and every person in your life as he/she is there with you and don't wait for that person to part way's from you. Give each and every person the feeling of 'Yes, I am there for you'. And you'll see that they will be there for you.

10 Commandments to an Amazing Life !!

Ever wanted to have an amazing and satisfying life ?

Well I have chalked out Ten Commandments to lead an amazing life. These commandments need to be understood and implemented in life.

The Ten  Commandments to live a startling life are listed below.

1.
You must always be HAPPY and make others happy , even if it has to be with just a smile :D You must know that no one in this world is perfect. Imperfection lies in everybody and hence it is up to us, how we accept people the way they are and not to forget to keep them happy.

2.
You must see to it that YOU OBEY your PARENTS and not your parents obey you.
Because you may be able to keep every other person happy but if your parents aren't happy, then your life is meaningless.

3.
You must EAT the right kind of foods to be healthy. Yes, dieting is not at all necessary.
After all you cannot run a car ( mind you - a petrol car and not solar or something else ) without petrol.


4. 
You must always think POSITIVE and the positiveness must be so strong that the
negativeness will not even dare to come closer to you. Eventually if you are positive, the people around you are positive.

5.
In life you must always think BIG and think BETTER - in terms of standard of living, wealth, way of living, etc.

6.
NEVER see a person for how much wealth he owns, BUT see him for how rich he is at heart, how empathic he is or how great he is as a human.


7. 
There's a saying - 'What has to be done tomorrow, do it today. And what has to be done today, do it now'. To illustrate, it means NEVER to live in burdens of debt, may it be work, loans, etc.


8.
MATERIALISM isn't everything. One must try to find eternal happiness even in the
smallest tasks that he undertakes. Materialism is externalism. Likewise one must never adore oneself in front of the mirror because the mirror only shows your external beauty and not the internal beauty.


9.
In life consider SPIRITUALITY, divine centers and divine books to keep your mind relaxed, composed  and stress free - it does work !



10.
Life is too short, so make sure you FULFILL your wishes but at the same time you must
realize that everything should be balanced in life.

Following these commandment's religiously will definitely change your life and make your life more meaningful and fulfilling.. my best wishes...!!!

Cyber Crime : Be AWARE !

"Mr XYZ,
Congratulations you have been selected as the winner of a lucky draw and are
liable to get $500,000.
To collect your prize money please send in your account details and a transfer fee
of Rs 1,00,000 to ___ account at the earliest.
Thanks and Regards,
ABC"

This e-mail above could make you mad if it comes in your inbox. And why it wouldn't ? The prize money itself is enough to make a person blind in greed that he fails to understand that the complete mail is fake.

This form of cyber crime is committed by hackers who fool people and steal a good sum of money from the people or take all the account details , eventually leaving their account balance to nil.

This is done so professionally that to locate these hackers is almost impossible.

Well, this is not the only way of stealing money.There have been incidents where they hack your friends account and send you an e-mail stating that --

"Dear friend,
I had been to (some place-mostly abroad) for some work but here I became a prey
to theft. Now I don't have money to even get back to my hometown.
Could you please do me a favor of sending me $(amount) to this account
(____number) so that I can get back to my hometown and I also promise to return
the money back as soon as I get back.
Thanks,
Your Loving Friend,

ABC"

The mail is written so perfectly that you would want to help your friend. This way he bags the money you sent and later disappears.

People should thus be aware about the cyber crimes happening around the world and should never be a victim of such crimes. You should not give away your hard earned money to such people.

One should thus be INFORMED and AWARE about such happening and if you come across such mails, inform the cyber crime police so that they can do their job. And remember to  say NO to FREE MONEY.

An Interview with social networking site -Part 2

In the previous part [ You may also read the part 1 of this debate.

View Part 1 ]we talked about the merits of social networking and why do

some people think that social networking is a bane which according to you is
incorrect. So now let's continue...

Interviewer-Can you frame an example to suppport your statement mentioned

earlier ?
Interviewee-Yes , Of course. Like I said earlier you can connect with people ,chat
with them, play games but this doesn't mean that all da you play games or all day
you chat with friends who could even be possibly staying next door.It all depends
on the individual on how he manages his activities. And whereas speaking about
addiction , then there are bookworms who are addicted only to books all day long ,
of course this will give you a lot of knowledge but then where is your social life ? In
short there should be a balance of everything.

Interviewer-So what else could be the drawbacks of social networking according
to you ?
Interviewee- To a certain extent privacy issues and security to data could be a
drawback but people need not worry about this issue cause our engineer's are
there to handle it out.And needless to say let it be email account's, bank account's,  or any data exchange happening over the net faces privacy and data security
threats - the cause - unethical behavior of computer user's :D

Interviewer-So again humans are to be put @ fault... sad :(
Interviewee- hhmmm.....

Interviewer-Ok. Do you think that in near future social networking could be used ,
other than leisure time for some productive uses ?
Interviewee- Yes. Why not. In future schools and colleges can get connected
through social networking sites. Teacher's can get connected to students which is
slowly in the process. Even today many reputed companies have thier own fb and
twitter a/c's and pages,  basically for publicity.

Interviewer-What would be your conclusion on the effects of social networking on
the life of people ?
Interviewee-See,  in simple words, social networking sites is like a facility provided
to people and they should make the best use of it and not misuse of it and say that
it's a bane to human lives.Without this vital aspect of life , people would be almost
back to the dark ages ! while privacy and security issues are nothing to be scoffed
@ , social networking proves to be a boon rather than a bane.

So with that, the debate whether social networking is a boon or a bane get's
clear.Social networking site has cleared our queries . But just in case you have
any other queries you may be free to ask by just posting a comment below this.
You shall get your answers as early as possible. :D